advice

Here is some advice

To all of you victims out there listen up! We're here to give you some advice on how to deal with physical bullies. So first of all... it's not only the bullies fault! You're also responsible, believe it or not. The unwillingness to fight back is a key factor. So stand up to the bully. The next time he walks up to you, stick your chest out, face him head on and tell him/her that you don't like it. Give them a warning. If they don't stop, tell an adult first. Try not to resort to violence, because adults will often solve the problem without any casualties. 

Until the age of eleven, nine out of ten bullies will stop, in fear of ''getting into trouble''. But here's an interesting fact: Did you know, that in Canada, starting at the age of 12 a person can be pursued in court and receive a criminal record? In the UK, the age is even younger.

In the UK, that means the court can hold you responsible at the age of 10 for any criminal act (vandalism, robbery,  physical assault, etc.). So if your bully is ten or older (depending on where you are) file a complaint. The proof is visible! If you need more proof, gather a few witnesses willing to help you. After receiving a criminal record the bully will stop.

If not, you might have to start defending yourself from further attacks that might endanger your life. Reach out to law to help you once again, BUT NEVER EVER RESORT TO VIOLENCE UNLESS IT IS ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY.  

I know this might sound cliche, but don't ever forget:

Suicide is never an option.

Life will get better, we can almost guaranty it. 

Also suicide is an extremely selfish act... you might be relieving yourself from the pain now..., but remember there are people who love you. Basically you're getting rid of your pain, but also causing pain to others.

So don't ever think of suicide as an option.